It’s so obvious. How many times have we watched a drop of water land in a larger body of water and begin to create smaller, then larger circles? Add to the mix a boisterous rain storm and you have many circles of many sizes expanding, overlapping and becoming bigger by the moment.

This isn’t rocket science. We’re talking basic motion principles.

Back to the obvious. One conversation, one cough, one sneeze—and hundreds, if not thousands of drops in various forms of liquidity are jettisoned into the air. Fact.

Much has been said, and likely will continue to be spoken and written with regard to face coverings. There are those who’ve made wearing one about personal rights. Others subscribe totally to the belief God will never permit them to contract COVID-19. The remainder—interestingly, a growing number—believe that to cover one’s mouth and nose when around others is the wisest, most compassionate decision we could make, for their sake and our own.

The reality is there is some truth in each of these perspectives. The caveat, however, is who or what do I see as the priority?

Enter the ripple effect.

Here’s the deal. There’s not a single choice you or I make at any given moment that doesn’t impact at least one other person. Often, the ripple effect of that choice extends far beyond.

Lest we minimize the potential for hurt or harm [to others or self] consider the far-reaching consequences of the ripple effects of these commonplace choices and actions: getting behind the wheel after a couple of alcoholic drinks; crossing the street while texting; clearing the grocery shelves of X, Y, or Z to stuff the home pantry.

Call me a positive realist. Why? I believe we are all capable of making better choices. Because when it’s all said and done, I believe that most of us, in the depths of our hearts, desire to love, and be loved. What better way to help make that happen than by being part of a ripple effect of loving-kindness, thoughtfulness, and generosity that spills into our families, communities, and country?

Do I struggle with the idea of being part of a ripple effect?

Does my perspective need to be more other-centered than me-focused?

Can I ask God for the grace to be used as a single drop of hope and love?